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One of the
greatest keys
to success is persistence. So many people quit in this world moments
away from when they would achieve a breakthrough.
You may not realize it, but I bet this has happened to
you
at least once in
your life. You were probably so close to accomplishing what you set out
to do, but fell short because you quit at the last moment.
The best story of persistence that I know comes from
Thomas Edison.
He failed over a thousand times before finally perfecting the light
bulb.
Having the persistence to go after what you truly desire
can get you
many of the things that, up to this point, have only dreamed of.
The following is eight ways that you can build up your
persistence.
Read this list. And remember these ideas the next time you find
yourself giving up on a goal that you
really want
to achieve…
1. Knowing What You Want
It’s pretty simple. If you don’t know what it is you
want, there is
no reason to read the rest of this page. Come back at a later time when
this article will be of more use to you.
To have anything great in this world, you must know
exactly
what it is you want.
Perhaps you want to be the CEO of your company. If that
is the case,
don’t let a day go by where you aren’t constantly thinking about
becoming the CEO.
If you want a million dollars, picture in your mind you
checking your bank account and seeing one million dollars.
If you aren’t sure what you want most, the time to start
deciding is
right now! Search for as
long as you need to until you find exactly what it is that you most
want in life.
Spend the next few days, weeks, and even months if you
have to. Because…
You can’t get anywhere great in life unless
you know where you are going.
Know what it is you
want. Because if you
are aiming at the right goal, you will have plenty of persistence.
Especially if you combine that with…
2. Having A Burning Desire
Make sure that you have a goal that you want
really
badly. It has to be something that you would
absolutely
destroy everything in your path to achieve!
If you have something that is
that meaningful
to you, it will be very easy for you to be persistent.
Think hard. I’m sure there is something out there that
you want
really badly. Whatever it may
be, the more desire you have, the more you will stick with it when the
going gets tough.
3. Believe In Your Own Abilities
Fear is the
ultimate
killer of persistence. To avoid fear, you must have confidence in
yourself and your abilities.
After all, if
you aren’t
confident in yourself, nobody else will!
I have to admit, I have struggled with confidence in
myself over the
years. Especially when it came to starting this site. Here are just a
few things that constantly went through my mind when I first started
this site…
- there are better writers than me out there
- they are much smarter
- I will never have the time to make it work
It was hard for me to get going until I realized this…
The only limitations you have are the one’s
that you put on yourself.
I figured out that
none of these things
were really true. I had and always will have the ability if I set my
mind to it. I can get past any competitors I may have by simply
outworking them.
If you get stuck in
having a negative
mindset, ask yourself this, “Maybe these thoughts aren’t true. Maybe I
do have what it takes.”
I promise that if you
put enough time
and effort into anything, you will be able to do anything that your
heart desires. Have confidence in yourself. And your persistence level
will go way up!
4. Having Organized Plans
This is a very underrated part of persistence. If you
want to have
the ability to stick with a goal, you must have at least a basic
outline of how you are going to get there.
When you get side-tracked, reevaluating your plans can
help get you back and headed in the right direction.
If you haven’t yet, take a look at the biggest goal you
want to
achieve. What steps do you plan on taking to get you there? What
mini-goals do you have to achieve that will help guide you to your
ultimate goal?
The more organized you are in your plans, the more
confidence you will have in them. Speaking of which…
5. Confidence In Your Plans
What is the point of having detailed plans to reach your
goal if you don’t think those plans will work?
If there is even a 1% doubt in your mind that your plans
won’t work, modify them until you have complete confidence.
This happened to me with one of my previous sites. I had
a plan of
writing one new page every single day. Now, this might sound good and
all but it didn’t work out. Here’s why…
I figured out that my writing was getting worse and
worse because
all I was doing was writing as quickly as possible so I could finish a
page and be done for the day. I realized I needed to modify my plans.
So instead, I had a goal of writing 1000 words per day.
This took
the pressure off from having to complete a page. If it was a long
article, I could finish it the next day if I had reached my word limit.
The articles I was producing started to be much better
and my site began to receive much more traffic.
I’m asking you to constantly look at and update your
plans if you feel the need to. Your persistence will absolutely
crumble
if you have
any
lack of confidence in your plans.
6. Help From Others
Once again, another overlooked factor in persistence.
Sometimes you
need a confidence boost from others. Whether it be someone you look to
for advice. Or perhaps you just need someone to listen.
Don’t try to get through everything on your own.
This site is filled with confidence boosters if you need
it. But
don’t stop there. Having people in your life that you can turn to for
advice is incredibly important. Especially if it is someone who has
been in a similar situation as you and came out on top.
Have conversations with people that are higher up in
your company.
They probably went through very similar situations that you are going
through right now.
Persistence is something that you must fight with
sometimes. And
having a mentor and help from others can help you with that fight.
7. Willpower
Sometimes you need help from others. And sometimes you
just need to suck it up and get through it!
Willpower is something that I struggle with everyday.
You must have
somewhere to turn to for constant inspiration. For me, I can always
turn to my journal.
My journal is filled with motivating stuff that I have
picked up
from hundreds of books that I have read. All I need to do is read a few
pages and my batteries instantly start to get recharged.
I recommend that you carry around with you at least a
page or two of
quotes or thoughts that you find inspiring. If you get down about
something, you can pull out this sheet of paper and re-energize
yourself.
If you need a place to start, try going to Google and
typing in “jim
rohn quotes.” Quite frankly, nobody explains things as well as Jim
does. You might even want to pick up his
Treasury Of Quotes at Amazon. It’s
worth every penny!
8. Improve Your Habits
Ahh, of course. I had to throw in one of my favorite
things to talk about. It is so valuable…
Getting into good daily habits makes becoming persistent
almost automatic!
Take a good hard look at what you do everyday. Start
eliminating
some of the bad things you find yourself doing every day. The things
which waste your time and make your days less useful.
Start adding things to your day that will help you reach
your goals faster. Think about it this way…
If you do twice as much work as you are
currently doing now, you will reach your goals twice as quickly.
Think about that the
next time you are
thinking about your big goals. If you want to achieve them quicker,
start doing twice as much.
It’s really not that
hard to work hard
once you get in the habit of doing so. When it’s habit, you won’t think
twice about doing some of the things that you dread doing now.
If you want lifelong
persistence, practice these eight things and you will travel on a
straight path toward reaching your goals