Thursday, December 11, 2025

"Happiness Triangle” (How to Stay Happy During the Journey)


This lesson teaches the Happiness Triangle
a simple rule even a 10-year-old can follow.


💡 The FI Happiness Triangle

There are 3 things you must balance to stay happy while building Financial Independence:

1️⃣ Progress

2️⃣ Pleasure

3️⃣ Peace

If even ONE is missing, you’ll feel stuck.

Let’s break them down.


1️⃣ PROGRESS → “My life is moving forward”

Humans are happiest when they feel improvement.

Your FI Progress happens through:

  • ₹40,000 monthly FIRE investing

  • weekly health improvement (towards 60 kg goal)

  • daily skill building (Python, testing, bots)

  • becoming mentally stronger

Even small wins feel great.

Progress gives motivation.


2️⃣ PLEASURE → “I enjoy my life”

Pleasure is NOT luxury.

Pleasure is simple joy:

  • a cup of tea

  • a long walk

  • a good meal

  • small treat

  • music

  • talking to loved ones

  • planning a trip

  • taking a short drive

  • watching sunsets

  • weekly cafe visit

Your ₹5,000/month travel bucket ensures you always have planned enjoyment.

Pleasure gives energy.


3️⃣ PEACE → “My mind is calm”

Peace gives long-term happiness.

You maintain peace through:

  • simple living

  • no unnecessary expenses

  • walking

  • quiet time

  • travel planning

  • avoiding drama

  • low-stress routine

  • handling money wisely

  • sleeping well

Peace gives stability.


🔥 Why You Need All 3

If you have Progress + Peace but no Pleasure →
Life becomes boring and frustrating.

If you have Pleasure + Peace but no Progress →
Life feels stuck and meaningless.

If you have Progress + Pleasure but no Peace →
Life becomes stressful and chaotic.

Happiness requires all 3 working together
→ Calm mind
→ Simple joy

→ Daily improvement